Someone said this recently, and I just thought it was a beautiful way to look at it.
"it still hurts even if you dont want someone.
like theres a hole and it takes a little time to fill it'
so it feels strange for a bit,
so you wait. and then one day you realize you're use to it....and then a little while later you realize it's filled in
and sometimes it leaves a scar and sometimes it doesnt"